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It feels like your partner is taking the coward's way out, and it leaves you with basically no sense of closure, which can make it super difficult to move on. But even though it should be common sense that sending a breakup text is a huge dating no-no, recent data from text marketing software company SimpleTexting reveals just how common it really is. Yep, you read that right: the majority of those surveyed said that a brief, impersonal message had been the demise of at least one of their relationships. Generally, experts recommend meeting up in personif possible, or at the very least making a phone call. But when you're the one who wants to end a relationship, it becomes easier to see the plus side of a breakup text. You might worry that the other person will cry, try to talk you out of it, or even become angry, she says.

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You might worry that the other person will cry, try to talk you out of it, or even become angry, she says. For better or worse, technology has changed the way we date and communicate, and there's a lot to consider on both sides of the court. Even if the two of you have been at it for a while, but the romance has fizzed or you're both avoiding each other like the plague, a simple text might be a relief for both parties.

Although our phones can feel like an extension of ourselves these days scary, but trueit is still generally frowned upon to end a relationship through text. Try explaining to your grandma that you can order food, buy a new wardrobe, complete a college course, pay your bills, and find a new love connection all without making a phone call or leaving the comfort of your own home.

Speaking of which Here are some of the instances where experts feel a text break up is chill. Sending a breakup text is also OK if you were only dating someone for a short period of time. Mutual breakups aren't only reserved for the early stages of dating, either.

You might even realize there's nothing more that needs to be said. Wyatt Fisher, Psy. How has the new set of social etiquette standards brought on by tech changed our relationships with and considerations for acceptable interactions with our romantic partners? So even though the focus of a braeking text is often on the receiver, the sender is doing just as much damage to themselves.

From there, reach out to loved ones and friends, or even your therapist, to help you begin the process of accepting that the relationship has ended, Henry says, as well as how it ended. And because the person's reaction remains a mystery — and, you're not likely to ever see or hear from them again — it can be hard to talk yourself out of doing bgeaking. Racine Henry, Ph.

Yep, you read that right: the majority of those surveyed said that a brief, impersonal message had been the demise of at least one of their relationships. This can leave the dumped partner feeling disrespected or uncared for. In these cases, you're better off texting. If you still feel like texting isn't the right move, Brenner suggests that starting with a phone conversation could work: "That can be a reasonable middle ground where there is a more personal element, but also avoids the problems with meeting in person.

It feels super impersonal, leaves you unable to have a real conversation about what went wrong in the relationship, and experts the world over agree it's cold as ice. I just didn't have the heart to do it When You Can't Trust Them The last, and most absolute, reason to send a breakup text "would be when you can't trust the other person because they have been physically or emotionally volatile in the past and you fear for your safety," says Fisher.

It should go without saying that if you're in a long-term relationship, breaking up with your partner over text is extremely unfair and disrespectful — and should be avoided at all costs. What A Text Message Breakup Reveals About The Person Who Pressed Send You never really know what's going on in someone's head when they send a breakup text, but there are a few things it could reveal about their personality and how they operate in relationships.

While difficult and uncomfortable in the moment, a more heartfelt breakup — where you sit down with your partner, explain what went wrong, and give them a chance to ask questions and gain closure — is an important part of relationships. You can, however, enjoy the one luxury of a breakup text: that you don't have to respond right away. Here's the scoop on breaking up via text, from all perspectives, according to experts.

They won't get to witness their partner going through shock, sadness, or anger, and that can increase the likelihood of being impulsive, hurtful, or dismissive in the future. He continues, "It's easy to misinterpret texts because you're missing non-verbal communication, so it's more difficult to receive a breakup this way, because it often leaves you with many unanswered questions.

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They may be indifferent to the emotions of others, or so fearful of emotions that they cannot face or manage them. Though it might seem cruel to break up with someone through your phone, these circumstances make it totally acceptable to not do it IRL.

But when you're the one who wants to end a relationship, it becomes easier to see the plus side of a breakup text. That being said, there are a few instances in which a breakup text is an acceptable choice.

We do everything on our phones. I'm feeling a bit more justified And as Henry says, you can always follow up in person or over the phone, once they've cooled off.

1. When You Barely Know The Other Person

Either way, Henry recommends deleting the breakup texts so you don't read them over and over again, since that isn't good for your psyche. The fear you won't follow through with a breakup is another instance when you can consider breqking doing it in person.

Inviting them mrssage in person might get their hopes up at this point, and the actual IRL breakup talk could be very awkward, as there won't be much tdxt say. When You Barely Know The Other Person Sometimes, it doesn't even feel like a breakup is required at all after only a few dates, but if you can tell this person is interested in you, and you aren't feeling it, letting them down via text is actually courteous.

So, people go with their impulse to take the easy way out, which is breaking up over text. According to Jonathan Bennetta certified counselor and relationship expert at Double Trust Datingit has a lot to do tet the way social media and online dating have fostered a lack of connectedness. Brenner, MDpsychiatrist, breaming and psychoanalyst, feels that there are many instances that make it OK to do the deed digitally.

However, Grant H.

2. When You Know It Is Mutual

It feels like your partner is taking braeking coward's way out, and it leaves you with basically no sense of closure, which can make it super difficult to move on. For example, "If you feel that having this conversation in person will put you in danger in any way or that the other person will attempt something manipulative, text can be safest and more comfortable," Dr. Meeting face-to-face could be too hard for you for other reasons, too.

messaage Both of you deserve the opportunity to speak your piece before parting ways, and be granted the dignity of a face-to-face goodbye. Distance yourself from a violent or toxic partner as soon as you can do so safely.